Falling in love is one of the best things that could happen to you. A lot of people stay calm and can think clearly while there are others who are too sensible and feel overwhelmed. To be honest, too much intensity in a relationship can be harmful and can have a bad impact on your life.
This is even worse when the strength of such emotions come from only one side. Love-bombing, in general, is a person’s forceful and extreme behaviour towards an object he/she truly desires. You may be love-bombed without even realizing it. Such type of behaviour can come in the form of romantic words, actions, or even gestures.
In this post, we shares some signs that show that you have been love-bombed. Without further ado, let’s get straight into these signs.
They say ‘I love you’ too soon
Hearing your significant other say ‘I love you’ is very romantic.To hear your partner say ‘I love you’ very early in a relationship is something you should be wary of. Falling in love is interesting and it is hard to contain the excitement in the beginning. But mature relationships understand that the rush they get in the beginning should not be mistaken for a love that lasts.
If someone is saying ‘I love you’ only after a few days or weeks after the relationship, chances are he/she is not being honest about their feelings. This probably means that they are trying to control you. This is a clear sign that they are making you emotionally dependent so that you could be manipulated later.
They Make Big Romantic Gestures
They will give you roses and other flowers every day for a week. They will also text you every once in a while because they miss you too much. They will book tickets to Paris only a week after you’ve met. Sounds very interesting, right? But it is not. All this will seem like a nightmare very soon. They are just creating a world where you cannot imagine to live without them. They are also scoring so that they can manipulate you later. You will get used to this special treatment and attention, dependent on them emotionally. Then they’ll ask you if you can give up this wonderful world.
Once you have slept together, they will find ways to blackmail you. They will do something to get you uncomfortable. They will ask you to be grateful for all the gifts they have sent to you. There will come a time when you will find yourself worthless. Keep in mind if the person is making big romantic gestures, you are most probably love-bombed.
They Discuss Serious Milestones
Another sign that you have been love-bombed is that your partner will rather be interested in a future together rather than getting to know you well. Instead of asking questions about you, they will be interested in planning the name of the children or the places they can go on a honeymoon. They will also plan on doing things on your relationship anniversary. Besides, they will talk about ways to make the marriage grand. Overall, they are not interested in you. They are just trying to control you. They will make you believe and discuss serious milestones. If you are seeing these signs, you are most probably love-bombed. It is better to give up on your relationship if you are encountering such signs.
They Want You To Be Perfect
The love-bomber want you to be perfect in every sense. They will put you to an untouchable position. They will like to see you like a god or goddess, and they want you to be flawless. The idea of a flawless life partner is what they dream of. They will tell you how good you look; the way you are dressed, how your hair are on fleek. But yet when you show a little of your imperfection on your side, they will be dismayed and in complete shock.
They will have a hard time digesting the fact that you are not dressed perfectly. They just can’t stand the fact that you are not looking perfect. To them, everything should look flawless and captivating. It is not a good sign and it shows that you have been love-bombed.
If you see any of these signs, there are very good chances that you are love-bombed in your relationship. Sure, you want a relationship to work perfectly but things won’t always turn out the way you planned it to be. You want a romantic partner but you sure do not want a control freak in your life. If you are in a relationship where you feel like you are not in total control of yourself or you cannot do what you plan to do, then you should totally get out of such kind of a relationship. You might think that your partner is very much into you for doing all these, but you will get sick of it. It’s better to get out from such kind of a relationship.